We have all had conversations in which the issue of infidelity is mentioned and just lately I had this type of chat with a close friend who was revealing to me that her man was in fact utilising her bank card to purchase chats with an adult phone line service and that the idea he was using her dollars to purchase intimacy was what had in fact distressed her “At least these were affordable phone sex calls” my friend ultimately mentioned concerning all those phonesex chats he had been savoring without telling her, as though the belief that he at the very least had the good sense to choose women who supplied their intimate adult phone expertise for cheap was to be commended! I couldn’t help but ask her if that was the only reason she was upset about, after all, if perhaps my own hubby had been the one enjoying live one-to-one erotic discussions with other females, I predict I might have become raving mad with regards to the whole thing!
It’s not as if we are not spoiled for choice is it? There are plenty of one on one phone sex conversations to be had, private shows to participate in so why deprive ourselves of this type of adult entertainment. (As long as it is between consenting adults of course.).
I actually know plenty of people, who are single or in between relationships who do use this type of adult entertainment. But what would you say if a person you knew, a married person! at that told you once that she caught her husband using one such adult phone service? Would you potentially forgive him? Be so understanding that you’d be much more perturbed because of the simple fact that the man involved had utilised your credit card to buy this (as my friend’s husband did) which is just what you ended up being troubled by?, or would you be less inclined to forgive him? Here is what my friend told me when I asked if she was angry with her husband!
Wouldn’t you agree that when we go out with the girls sometimes, some of us get into more mischief than my dear husband does?”
Her reaction made me stop and think about it for a while. It was certainly an argument I had not been ready for, however I had to confess that there was some validity in it. Let’s be honest, everyone knows that the ladies who answer these types of calls are nothing like the photographs they publish on their websites thus it could be rationalized that it’s not the girl her hubby called whom he was experiencing phonesex with, but alternatively a fantasy, a voice who was whomever he wanted her to be.
“I have caught my very own spouse viewing adult material on numerous occasions” I told her, “thus I can understand just where you’re coming from! With that in mind, I am certain I would not have allowed my husband to get away with something like that though..”
I didn’t have time to continue saying what I wanted to say because my friend interrupted me:
“Here is the thing… After I made him feel guilty for using my credit card without my authorization, I suggested that next time he was going to call one those lines, he should be doing when I was there, listening in… After all, if he was having fun on the side, shouldn’t I be included?”
I was astounded! This was my gentle sweet childhood close friend I was in conversation with. The lady who had her very first kiss one twelve months after I enjoyed mine… Who lost her virginity after she went to college when all of us had become “women” years before. And here she was telling that she and her hubby were contemplating virtual and intimate multi partners relationships. It was outrageous… And remarkable.
“Did you? I asked her. Did you do it? Did you and your husband have adult phone with another person? Your own virtual version of a 3-some!
“Of course I did! And I loved it. It was quite an experience and all I can tell you is that you should try it!”
